The Secret Of Thanksgiving

One thing I'm grateful for: my spring garden in late fall!

Across the US folks are gathering today with family and friends, or just enjoying (as my own family is) a sweet time at home to celebrate Thanksgiving. No matter what tales and folk-myths we carry about the first Thanksgiving, the point is that giving thanks is one of those “cultural elements” — those practices that are universal to (dare I say) all cultures. In fact, you might call it an essential honest expression or gesture in any culture that knows itself.

Okay, if we look at postmodern American culture, we might be hard-pressed to say that the US culture “knows itself”.  Our overtly selfish, greedy, irresponsible, grab-all-you-can and hang the consequences nation pays lip service to Thanksgiving. But is Thanksgiving woven into the real fabric of who we are as a nation, as citizens?   I look to the Iroquois Confederacy–the Haudenosaunee (the People Of The Longhouse)–whose hundreds year old democracy on this good soil so values gratitude and its gifts that the people in this cultural tradition begin every morning, every gathering (including political) in “bringing their minds together as one” and giving thanks.

What a beautiful practice! But not just being beautiful, it is a practical practice. When we give thanks –

for the people around us
the earth
the waters
bacteria and other microorganisms
the insects and spiders
the herbs
the finned ones
the animals
the trees
the birds
the air we breathe
the clouds and weather
the moon
the sun
the stars
the creative and imaginative principles and spirits
the Creator, Divine, Mystery
the universe and the future generations
and anything and everything else that springs into our hearts and minds –

– when we take the time and make the space to truly honor and celebrate the individuals in the web of this event and adventure we call life, then we bring our whole selves in balance with all that is. We know ourselves to be part of a generous life-giving cosmos, and we are essential to the fabric of creation.  We become a means that the cosmos, the divine knows itself.  Even more immediate: we know ourselves to be woven to the people right next to us. Who they are matters. What they are worried about matters. Giving thanks takes us out of our hidebound selves and places us into an intermingled concept of who we are.

In a very practical sense, when we give thanks for the many blessings in our life we enhance our awareness of these many things. Giving thanks from the heart (not just lip service) opens us to caring for all things, and deepening a felt knowledge that we are integral to the celebration–that there is a celebration taking place right now around us. A cause-and-effect begins: when we give thanks for the heart, and make that a daily practice, we find much more to be thankful for. We discover the abundance that is everywhere in our lives. Perhaps abundance even increases as a result, as synchronicities and everyday miracles are revealed or come into play because we are able to witness them. We grow in our inner strength and assurance, and develop an “upright mind”.

I’m not going to try to define an “upright mind” — just sit with those words and feel them in your cells, bones, being. Better yet, sit with your back to a tall tree, and contemplate those words, or better yet again–offer Thanksgiving–and you’ll sense what I mean.

It is said that Benjamin Franklin and other founding fathers were fascinated by the Haudenosaunee and their democracy, and that many elements of Haudenosaunee democracy and their Great Law Of Peace found some form in our own US Constitution (I invite you research this topic and see what you discover.  See the book The U.S. Constitution And The Great Law Of Peace: A Comparison Of Two Founding Documents or search on the web). Imagine if true thanksgiving and bringing together of minds were to find their way in honest fashion in the conduct of our government! Hm. I just love the vision of the possible.

But in the meantime, it can’t really happen–not in the self-absorbed, uninitiated, stumbling, crumbling structure that is our republic at this time. But it can begin with where you and I are. Where we honestly make the time and space to celebrate the incredible beauty and bounty of existence and of ourselves and fellow beings in relation to that and each other. It is said that the the dawn chorus–birds at sunrise, bursting into song–are offering Thanksgiving. May we find ways to do so that become as natural as waking up, as fixing a meal, as saying hello, and wiping a tear from a loved one’s eye. It all begins right where we are.

American culture does honor Thanksgiving–at least one day a year. But I think if we look around in our own lives we can find where gratitude is alive and well, or at least alive, in our families and communities-of-heart.  The roots of heart-centered culture begin right where we are.  We are the true America, redefining, remaking, redeclaring itself.

How do you offer Thanksgiving in your day, everyday? What are your thoughts and insights on gratitude? What are you grateful for right here and now? Please share your words here! We can all begin right where we are to bring our hearts/minds together as one ….

Resources:

Below are two great children’s picture books on giving thanks.

Discovering Elder Nature

09162009_19In the book Between Earth And Sky: Our Intimate Connections To Trees by Nalini M. Nadkarni, the author tells of an Inuit man from tundra land in the northern corner of Canada who encounters large trees and forest for the first time in Washington State.  In his native language Inuktitut, where there are more than 25 words for different kinds of snow, no words exist for tree or forest.  Instead, the language uses words that mean “pole” and “many poles”.

The author had brought a number of people together to experience the forest canopy and its immense diversity for the first time, and to hear their responses.  The Inuit man, Emil, passed an hour on a platform in the canopy, then returned to the ground, where for the next few days he wandered from tree to tree, spending long minutes with them, with a hand to the trunk.  In particular he passed time with western red cedars–trees regarded as most significant to the native peoples of the area.

At the end of this time in the forest, a celebration of stories, dance, and impressions of the forest took place around a fire.   At this time Emil stood and offered his perceptions:

He looked at each of us in turn and in a formal tone, said, ‘In these days, I have learned that trees are more than just poles.  You must learn to treat these big trees the way we treat the elders in our village–with great care and great respect.  Trees are as important to you as our grandparents are to us because they teach you things.’  A long pause followed Emil’s words, given weight by the strength of its source–a man who until the week before lacked a word for tree or forest.

Reading this story, several realizations rippled through me. Awe–but not surprise–that the presence and spirit of the trees was so palpable to this man from a culture that did not really know trees. And sadness in his comparision: how he and his culture regard the elders of their community and the wisdom they caretake–and how we, in our culture at large, do not.

And yet–I also find myself awash in hope. If a man from a culture that does not know trees can come to an understanding and awareness of trees from his own experience with elders in his community, surely places and opportunities exist in each of our lives to connect with elder wisdom, recognize it, and learn from it. In each of our lives, is an elder or two or three … who embody a deep understanding or a way of being, a way of seeing who we really are, or some profound knowledge or experience well beyond our own that speaks to us, to the core of our being. And if not a human elder, then a particular place–a magnificent landscape, a sweet home, or museum or chapel or … that calls to some realm in our hearts, connecting us to past and future generations, to legacy and promise.

Or perhaps the stars offer these qualities to us, connecting us with layers of being beyond what we know on earth. Perhaps it is that tenacious dandelion, seizing the day in a sidewalk crack. Surely in each of our lives we have experiences of place, people, dreams, other beings, spirit that teach us how to experience the profound presence within something else entirely.

What is elder wisdom? I think you and I both know that answer — if not in a sentence or paragraph, then in the expanse of feeling and association, yearnings, and comforts that shift across our psyches when we are touched by–something–that pulls us to strive to be more attentive, more honest, more connected and rooted and purposeful, more mindfully of service within our weave of family, community, more-than-humanity, spirit, self.

The ancient connective ways that sustained humanity for hundreds of generations is not lost to us in the 21st century. These ways are written into our cells, into our blueprint as human beings. We can reclaim our awarenesses and understandings, because they have never left. We just need to look around and notice where they are alive and well: in a gesture, a kind word, in wise old eyes that might be found on an elder, a child, a tree. In the dreams that shake us or whisper us awake. We can take notice, pay attention, absorb the energy. Then we can go out, feeling that elder wisdom move through us, reshaping our understanding of who and what we are, and how we are with one another.

Take a moment now. Without thinking too hard–or even thinking at all!–place your hand on your heart. Take a few deep breaths, then ask yourself: where do I experience this deep, connective wisdom in my own life? How may I caretake it, nurture it, listen more deeply? How may I embody this nature when next I step out my door? How might my perceptions shift? My attitude? My words? My relationships with others, human and otherwise?

Take time traveling through what comes to you. Then, with words or thoughts of gratitude, breathe deeply again, and return to the present. Reflect on what came forward for you, write down your thoughts. Then, perhaps, go out your front door, and discover what happens. Perhaps you too will discover, figuratively speaking, how ‘poles’ have become ‘forest’.

bonsai1 These bonsai were shown at the San Mateo Bonsai Club’s 46th Annual Autumn Bonsai Exhibit.

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Bonsai have always spoken to me of elder artistry — a tree and its natural beauty encouraged into miniature form — a relationship between the human artist and the tree itself.
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In Tamora Pierce’s fantasy series Circle Of Magic #02: Briar’s Book and Circle Opens #02: Street Magic, the young plant mage Briar Moss works with miniature trees. bonsai3
Not only does he shape and care for these trees, but he infuses magic into them as well. In these books, a particular elder miniature tree (called a shakkan) has been infused with magic for 150 years, and so is a potent and powerful being in itself, able to offer magic when needed … I love this concept–a tantalizing way to partner with a tree …!

Gwynne loved the fairy world of this bonsai

Gwynne loves the fairy world of this bonsai


A shakkan indeed

A shakkan indeed


How Are You Nature?

A Medicine Tree In The Sierras -- gripping granite

A Medicine Tree In The Sierras -- gripping granite


About a month ago, our family traveled to Amador County for an extended family gathering. A huge delight of our trip was clambering on gargantuan granite boulders, and discovering some amazing medicine trees. I love this one. As a seed how did it come to find just what it needed on this rock? Just enough soil caught in the cracks, just enough water at the right times, or snow. The tenacity of extending its roots and gripping stone–I just love that! I could have spent the entire day with this particular tree, exploring the furrows in its bark, gently patting its moss clothing, nibbling on a scaly leaf …

Back home in the suburbs I have other trees that speak their medicine. They may not be as ancient (or maybe they are) or as tenacious in the face of the elements (or maybe they are), but they speak to me in other ways. The incense-cedar thrusting huge limbs well above the houses, and providing plenty of habitat and food for creatures like the chickadees, the squirrels, and the little woodpecker (what kind is that speckled one?), and who knows who else that I haven’t discovered yet. The hawthorn ripening with berries, lichened limbs, bark chiseled by insects and woodpeckers–I can almost glimpse its pink blossoms, known from other years I lived here, even though it is berry time.

When we notice nature we are noticing something of ourselves, something unrecognized perhaps, or perhaps a well-known reflection. In another sense, we are noticing something of our extended nature, who we are beyond our bodies, our human nature. How might we experience ourselves as ecology? Extending shelter and shade, food, and proud presence to others–beings different from ourselves, being strong in who we are, or weekened by the elements, time, the insects or illness,. How are we nourished by the simple things (not so simple really!)–the essentials of water, sun, soil, and air?

When we tend to the nature around us, feeding soil, gifting water, or just appreciating the beauty, or climbing into the limbs — we are extending our sense of who we are, or erasing our sense, or coming into our senses. We do not need to engage in some intellectual or poetic rhapsody about how that tree is us or we are the tree (though we can), we need only be with the tree, or the rock, or the flitting of the birds about the yard, or the brash growth of Dandelion in the herbicide drenched, chemical-green lawn. We need only mingle with those other beings, with the larger ecology with our hearts, minds, hopefully our other senses — touch, smell, taste (when you can!), listening to who is visiting, too — the bee, the flies, the birds, the scrabble of Squirrel up a tree, or the flicking of Towhee in the leaves. Immerse and mingle, and when you’ve left, tell the story to yourself of who you met, what you experienced, what if felt like on your skin, in your heart. Tell the story to someone else.

When you experience something of nature, be sure to tell the story–to yourself, if no one else. When you do — if you haven’t realized what has happened already — you become nature. Something other has been etched into your limbs, mind, vision, and you may find yourself twitching like the squirrel, or embodying that bold weather-torqued strength of that lone tree on the granite boulder. In your cells you have become that nature, even if briefly. When you recall it, the nature extends, wriggling roots deeper through you. You may begin to wonder if nature has become you in turn!

So:

How have you been Nature today?

I’d love to hear your story!

What would this valley of stone tell you about you?

What would this valley of stone tell you about you?

A cloud over her head -- but isn't it a sweet one?

A cloud over her head -- but isn't it a sweet one?

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